Believing in yourself is the basic and main foothold for us a step forward. Mama used to say:
"All people should not believe in you, as long as you do not get do not believe in yourself."
Does not count how many people I meet who rejected my proposal because they are hesitant or do not believe in me. I've wanted to see a Representative of a major American corporation.
With full confidence I give you a proposal that I made. But the Boss just see at a glance, and immediately popped me with questions. The questions asked can I answer, and I also do not know how I can answer the question properly and even detailed questions also my responsibility. In fact, if I may be honest, I did not prepare well presentation materials, and proposals that I take is still not perfect. My goal at that time was just delivered a proposal that I put together, and without intent to business deal.
But what I experienced was the opposite, and he immediately asked me to be able to arrange a meeting with a group of Russian business. Business with him did not immediately happen, yet there is also when the Boss returned to America, and the recent 9 months.
If at that time I did not raise my confidence, of course, today the situation is different. Could be, when I was still in the streets without direction and purpose. If not ourselves, who can continue to believe in our ideals. But one thing to keep in mind are the ideals we must not be grandiose and unrealistic.
The proposal that I made -though simple- is very realistic, and can indeed be achieved. At that time, I did not have just money to make it happen; while I supported the work team capable to carry out the project in question. I honestly do not have the capital to say, I honestly have to say the team that can realize the proposal. I do this with no hesitation. Confidence changes everything, and foster trust other people to me.
"Confidence in the realistic or desire
which can indeed be achieved.
Useless to cultivate confidence to
achieve goals that can not be achieved. "
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